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Describe your family. What's one joy and one challenge about being in your family?

Reach Out

Fear is a big obstacle to reaching others with the news of Jesus. Rejected. Humiliation. Failure.

But the good news is that through Jesus, you can be welcomed and accepted by the God of the universe - how good! The fear of not being liked is done away with Jesus's perfect love, so we don't have to fear others.

When nerves hold us back from reaching out, what are some truths about Jesus and what he's done for us that will help us in those moments?

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John 3:1-21 (NIV)

1 Now there was a Pharisee, a man named Nicodemus who was a member of the Jewish ruling council. 2 He came to Jesus at night and said, "Rabbi, we know that you are a teacher who has come from God. For no one could perform the signs you are doing if God were not with him."

3 Jesus replied, "Very truly I tell you, no one can see the kingdom of God unless they are born again."

4 "How can someone be born when they are old?" Nicodemus asked. "Surely they cannot enter a second time into their mother's womb to be born!"

5 Jesus answered, "Very truly I tell you, no one can enter the kingdom of God unless they are born of water and the Spirit. 6 Flesh gives birth to flesh, but the Spirit gives birth to spirit. 7 You should not be surprised at my saying, 'You must be born again.' 8 The wind blows wherever it pleases. You hear its sound, but you cannot tell where it comes from or where it is going. So it is with everyone born of the Spirit."

9 "How can this be?" Nicodemus asked.

10 "You are Israel's teacher," said Jesus, "and do you not understand these things? 11 Very truly I tell you, we speak of what we know, and we testify to what we have seen, but still you people do not accept our testimony. 12 I have spoken to you of earthly things and you do not believe; how then will you believe if I speak of heavenly things? 13 No one has ever gone into heaven except the one who came from heaven—the Son of Man. 14 Just as Moses lifted up the snake in the wilderness, so the Son of Man must be lifted up, 15 that everyone who believes may have eternal life in him."

16 For God so loved the world that he gave his one and only Son, that whoever believes in him shall not perish but have eternal life. 17 For God did not send his Son into the world to condemn the world, but to save the world through him. 18 Whoever believes in him is not condemned,but whoever does not believe stands condemned already because they have not believed in the name of God's one and only Son. 19 This is the verdict: Light has come into the world, but people loved darkness instead of light because their deeds were evil. 20 Everyone who does evil hates the light, and will not come into the light for fear that their deeds will be exposed. 21 But whoever lives by the truth comes into the light, so that it may be seen plainly that what they have done has been done in the sight of God.


What stands out to you about Nicodemus' interaction with Jesus?


Nicodemus is confused. What does Jesus mean by being 'born again'?


Look up and read Ezekiel 36:25-27.
What do these verses say about humanity's natural state, and what God promises to do?
How does this help explain Jesus' response to Nicodemus in verses 4-8?


What do verses 16-21 tell us about why God sent Jesus into the world?


Some people believe that they can gain God's favour through their religious activity, social standing, or good morals. How does what Jesus tells Nicodemus challenge this idea?

Look Up

  • Praise God who gives new birth, and eternal life! Thank him for his great love in sending his Son to save the world from condemnation and death.
  • Being born again is a radical, supernatural thing that only God can do. Pray for people you know who might be interested, but confused, about Jesus. Ask that they will come to trust in Jesus, depend on him, and receive the new life he offers.